Reality TV personality Kristin Cavallari, 39, discussed her sex life and recent relationships on her podcast “Let’s Be Honest” ahead of her 40th birthday.
Cavallari said her sex drive has increased with age, telling listeners, “Like age 40, I’m way more sexual than I was at 25. Again, it would be nice if I had an outlet for it, but we can have sex with ourselves, which is what I f—ing do all the time.” She added that she is looking forward to being in a relationship again because of how she now views herself as “this like sexual being.”
She described her last relationship as “a very sexual relationship” that met a need she says she now misses. Earlier in the same episode, she joked that “it takes one to two years of abstinence to become a nun” and that she’s on her way to that milestone.
Cavallari added, “If this is what 40s is, like f—yeah. This is fun.”
Divorce and finances
Cavallari was married to former NFL quarterback Jay Cutler from 2013 to 2020, when she announced their divorce. The couple share three children: Camden, 14, Jaxon, 12, and Saylor, 10.
Speaking on the “Aspire with Emma Grede” podcast in July 2026, Cavallari said the success of her company, Uncommon James, gave her the confidence to leave the marriage — but also affected the financial settlement.
“Which is interesting because if I didn’t have Uncommon James, I could have taken half of his money, right? But because I had this company, there was a really large asset on our balance sheet. I didn’t get anything, which I’m so happy about now. But I don’t get any money from my ex-husband. I had to give him half the value of Uncommon James in cash and properties and everything else. Yeah. Isn’t that interesting?”
Dating history
After her divorce, Cavallari dated Mark Estes briefly in 2024 and country singer Morgan Wallen. In December 2024, she told Bunnie XO on the “Dumb Blonde” podcast that Wallen “was good in bed,” and said he was notable because he wasn’t “completely enamored” with her.
“I’ll be honest with you. He was the first guy in my f—ing life that wasn’t just completely enamored with me … It really threw me. I love having the upper hand and I feel like with him, I didn’t have the upper hand.”
In an April 2025 episode of her podcast, Cavallari revealed she had been in a relationship with former NHL player Nate Thompson, which ended in March of that year. She called it one of the deeper relationships she’s had, despite the short duration, but said she ultimately decided she didn’t want to be in a relationship.
“He is an ex-hockey player. He’s been retired for a couple years now. He’s a dad. He’s someone who has done a lot of work on himself, and we really connected on such a deep level. Honestly, one of the deeper relationships I’ve had, especially in such a short amount of time.”
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